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2009-06-02
My mother died in 1991. Even though much time has passed, I have never gotten over the void left by her death. As much of a "woman's woman" that I am, I craved the love, wisdom, and nurturing that only a mother can give.
That's why I feel so blessed to have Momma Ruthie in my life and am nominating her for this month's Goddess Spotlight. Words cannot describe just how amazing she is, but I will try.......
My husband, Chris, is Ruthie's only child. She raised him as a single parent. That in itself could have spelled disaster for any woman he chose as his wife. But not with my mother-in-love (that's what I call her). From the moment we met, she did nothing but make me feel welcomed, appreciated, and loved. I couldn't have been happier.
Ruthie and I share a special bond. We talk several times a week. She offers words of encouragement and I do the same for her. She even shared the recipe for Chris' favorite meal, oxtails, with me. Now that is a secure woman! : )
I can talk to Ruthie about anything. And I mean anything! We talk about things I never imagined I'd be talking to my husband's mother about, but that's just the type of relationship we have. We go from serious conversations to fits of giggles in a single phone call. It's beautiful.
Ruthie raised Chris to be an amazing man and therefore, a wonderful husband. I cannot thank her enough for laying the foundation and "kicking his booty" when needed because he's grown into the man of my dreams.
And the best part - she calls me her daughter. Wow! I have in Ruthie the mother that I've so longed for since my own mother passed away. I KNOW that I am truly blessed.
For the reasons I've shared and so many more, I nominate my "mother-in-love" for this month's Goddess Spotlight.
I love you Momma Ruthie!!!
06/03/2009 11:28:05
Tomiko I have to agree...
I am originally from Atlanta and moved to Houston a few years ago on an impulse. I have no family or real friends here. I have worked for Miss Ruthie for the past 2 1/2 years and she sustains me day in and day out with all she has to offer.
Weather it be a dose of daily inspiration from the bible or just teaching me how to enjoy a tomato, her love is truely endearing.
Miss Ruthie has taught me kindness when I felt I had none. She has helped me to improve on my patients and shown me how to enjoy the scenery until I reach my destination.
We too have shared conversations I felt I would never enjoy with a maternal figure but her sing song voice and overflowing wisdom just makes spilling your gutts easy to do. Recently, I have experienced some trying times but Miss Ruthie has held my hand every step of the way and for that I am eternally greatful.
For this and much much more, I second the nomination of Ruthie Hines-Silver, my mom away from mom!
06/03/2009 20:48:45
My lovely Tomiko and "MsCochran" --
Thank you for speaking from your hearts. Like Tomiko, my mother is now gone. I LOVE the possibility that Tomiko and Ruthie have created and it gives me hope that if a relationship like that exists, it only helps the rest of us! And MsCochran, your portrait of "Miss Ruthie" is a model for all of us who have people working for us and who appreciate a really amazing support system that goes both ways...
Robin
06/07/2009 11:00:10
My dear Tomiko, now you know you made me cry , don't you.
I suppose that it's ok since they were tears of joy and
from love.
Years ago I call recall hearing horror stories of "in-law" woes. I wondered "IF" my son ever decided to take a bride, what my relationship with my daughter-in-law would be.
Upon meeting you, I proudly say that I knew immediately that I would not loose a son but rather I would gain a daughter. Tomiko you are a very UNIQUE woman who,from my observation, offers much love and compassion in every relationship that you are a part of. I can't help but love you dearly because of the person you are.
A mother gets great satisfaction in knowing that her child has found the "ideal" life partner. It warms my heart sooooo.. much to witness the kind of love that you have for my son. I know he's in good hands with TOMIKO!
I consider it an honor to be your "MOMMA RUTHIE". Thank
you for sharing our relationship with others. I am sure
that Pat is giving you a loving thumbs up because she
truly raised a Goddess!!
And by the way, Chris and I are both Blessed to have you
in our lives. May God continue to bless you so that you
can continue to be such a blessing to others.
With much LOVE your
MOTHER-in-LOVE
MOMMA RUTHIE
06/08/2009 12:00:30
Thank you Momma Ruthie! We are all so blessed to have each other. : )
08/07/2009 03:22:29
I think that is truly a blessing I also lost my mother too in 1990. I don't care what goes on in your life or what doesn't go on that void will be there. If you had not had not said anything about her being your other halves mother I would have guessed you guys were already mother and daughter. I look forward to meeting her and everyone else one day. God Bless ttyl!!!
Thanks
P.S.
Sorry for the sloppy writing
08/18/2009 19:39:48
Awww, I love that story. Great job in expressing what a wonderful bond you two have. It really shows that it is possible to have a great relationship with your hubby's mom. Thanks for sharing what's possible!
Love and light to you and Mama Ruthie!
Erickka